10 Reasons To Come To I’D TAP THAT’s Event

1. I will be there. And I’m famous.

THATS ME…

2. Khadeja Wilkinson, Jesse Rae WestNess Fraser and Taken But Available will be there.

3. You don’t have to be single to meet awesome people.

4. No one will judge you – or… we put a great deal of energy into making the space a judgement-free one.

5. Drinks and dancing. Lots of dancing. Especially on my part.

6. Lucan, who’s the head honcho at The Central, is super cool, and their servers are all super sexy.

7. It’s summer. Everyone is wearing small amounts of clothing. And there are TWO patios that are all ours.

8. We have a live Twitter feed @_idtapthat, #CrushTO

9. We need to connect all of the incredibly awesome, talented, beautiful sexual beings in the city so we can build a community of support and friendship and sexy times.

10. Bewbs.

11. Khadeja Wilkinson is offering FREE KISSES.

12. The Condom Shack is being fucking amazing and giving us a $70 gift basket that we are raffling off!

I’d Tap That – A Venture Into Awesome

So. I’ve partnered up with some amazing girls (Jesse Rae West & TakenButAvailable) to start something new.

As much fun as I have here at my To Be A Slut homestead, there are some things that it is never going to turn into (whether this is because I want it to or just logical technicalities, who knows), but we’ve created a space that will turn into everything I ever wanted to do regarding sexy things

http://id-tap-that.com

Throughout my reign as sex queen, I have met (or, as they would say, ‘internet attacked’) some incredible women and men who are SOOO easy to talk about when it comes to sex. Who are genuinely interested in listening to me talk about my orgasms. Who don’t even blink an eye when I practically shout “I get SO wet when I drink wine” in the middle of Starbucks. Who will unabashedly stare a pictures of vulvas in the middle of a restaurant with me. Who will get naked with me. Who will dress up as slutty bumblebees and prance around my living room.

And I so badly want for all of you to join us in our uber happy world of sexuality that we have started a place to build a community.

We invite everyone (but our target audience is 19 – 35: Note, if you have a 55 year old lover, we more than welcome you to bring him/her to one of our events! We are not agist, we just recognize that different generations come with different histories), we encourage people to talk without worrying about offending anyone – as long as you are coming from a place of love, we won’t judge you if you aren’t politically correct all of the time, relax.

We will be bold, but not scary. We will be in your face, but not forceful. We will be proud, but not cocky (well.. maybe a little). Mostly though, we are just going to be full of love and fun.

I URGE you to come out and meet me and Jesse and our anonymous TakenButAvailable (she might reveal herself to you if you behave) at our first mixer.

These posters will be all over Toronto in the next few weeks. Hit us up with a tweet (@_idtapthat) if you see one.

Everyone that comes will be given a pin with a number on it. Throughout the night you will have the opportunity to write little crush notes and put them into boxes which will be checked every 30 minutes. We are going to have an epic live Twitter feed on one of the walls that will have each ‘Crush note’ posted. Think someone in the corner is cute?

#23, you have the most amazing smile I’ve ever seen.

#47, I kind of just want to sit on your face.

#6, I’m blonde in polkadots, find me for a smooch.

It will be kind of epic.

The event is for everyone, regardless of gender, race, relationship status, sexual preferences. Seriously. Come meet me. I want to meet you.

PARTY DATES WHAT!

BODY PRIDE PARTY DATES:

Tuesday Jan. 24th, 2011, 6pm (7 spots open)
Thursday Feb. 2nd, 2011, 6pm (9 spots open)
Wednesday Feb. 15th, 2011, 6pm (10 spots open)
Thursday March 1st, 2011, 6pm (10 spots open)

Please contact me to sign up for a date (ck.roberts@hotmail.com). There is a limit on the amount of lovely ladies that can come and we’s a gots ta stay organized!

Oh Oscar. The things you do to me.

What is happening:

In addition to you and all other party comers, there will be myself – a roaring and raging nude-o-holic. Stella May, who is my parter-in-crime and body positive beaming slutty light, and my sexy photographer goddess Khadeja. Now – as mentioned in the blog post (https://tobeaslut.com/2011/12/30/body-pride-round-1-so-do-we-just-get-naked/) about how we came to the party terms, having your fantastic birthday suit photographed is completely up to you, BUT, in case you want to check things out from another perspective, Khadeja is a professional photographer, here to make you look effin’ spectacular.

There will be a ‘party bag’ fee, the price of which is still being worked out, but it will include: a ‘to be a slut’ thong, a small towel, access to wine/beer/scotch and whatever other goodies I feel like throwing at you.

(Another note, if the parties are in high demand, more dates will be added, we want to see as many naked bodies as possible!)

Join the Facebook group for updates!

Crazy Blue Sex Toys

So. Sex toys. I’ll be the first to admit that my experience with them is not plentiful (yet). But, recently I enjoyed the company of Carlyle Jansen, founder and owner of Good For Her, a sex shop at Harbord and Bathurst, in discussing ‘eco-sex’. Oh the joys of having a sister so devoutly interested in saving the planet that she stumbled upon a small seminar at U of T in celebration of ‘Eco Week’.

eco sex!

Carlyle Jansen is pretty awesome. In my books, any woman who has a vulva puppet on hand is A-Okay by me. Continue reading “Crazy Blue Sex Toys”