Oasis Play Party hosted by I’d Tap That

As we dip into the naughtier side of life, we have partnered up with the amazingly sexy folks of Oasis Aqualounge to bring you I’d Tap Thats first official Play Party.

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What is a play party Caitlin? Well, dear naked being, a play party is a sex party. There are open rooms with large (clean) beds that you are able to openly engage in sexy time with those of your choosing, or to watch others play. There is one private room at the very top of the beautiful old building that you can sneak away to if you’d like to do things behind closed doors. There are wet saunas, dry saunas, a hot tub, and outdoor heated pool (you can’t have sex in the water, but you can definitely get butt naked). Stripper poles, porn, bars. We are having our own Willy Wonka handing out handmade (vegan friendly) chocolate. We are bringing in Kink pro Sarah L. to run a wonderfully detailed and interactive workshop about how to get started with a kink relationship. And there will be various live porn sets throughout the night!

If you are between the ages of 19-35 and have been wanting an opportunity to go to a sex club, this is a great opportunity as we bring out the babely people that come to CrushTO to get a little bit babelier. $15 entrance fee.

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I’d Tap That & to be a slut on the MTV’s!

Some awesome folks over at MTV are in their second season of ‘Losing It’ , providing the public with variations of virginity loss. After hearing how badly the sex-ed system failed so many of us, they decided to do a ‘Sex Ed Special’ and guess who’s in it! You can watch it here: Losing It Sex Ed Special!

What a fantastically awesome project to begin constructing a new social narrative in regards to how we talk about and approach sex. Losing It allows you to see just how differently each of us experience sex and sexuality. Big shout out to you guys over at MTV for kicking ass!

Oh! And thanks for letting me fulfill my dream of dancing about naked on TV! (With a super babely naked partner-in-crime to boot!)

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ONE YEAR OF AWESOME

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Last May, myself and three other ladies began something incredible: Crush. Crush has developed into a place where everyone of any sexual orientation/gender identity can come and just be awesome. From the feedback we have received, we have accomplished creating a space free of judgment, full of love, and packed with half-naked beings.

With this, I invite you to come celebrate CrushTO’s one year anniversary with us on May 25th. I will be flying in from St. John’s (with my husband) to partake in the exuberant excellence of this evening and I could not be more excited.

And on another awesome hand, SPIT is prepping to launch July 5!! We are having a very sexy party to leap into the world of raunchy eroticism, but we need some support from you guys, to cover some of the fees of the venue and to pay our super cool web-developer, we need to raise some funds and we have set up an account with Indiegogo. This way, we can ensure you get awesome things when you give us your money (as well as a bunch of free porn).

OR, if you have no money, we would deeply appreciate you sharing our indiegogo page and talking us up a lot so that your rich friends will support us. OR, if you are just super interested in sex and porn and nudity and art, shoot me an email at ck@tobeaslut.com to talk about submitting your work/modelling!

SEE YOU AT CRUSH!!!

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Few Updates: BP at CAYA and CrushTO Has A New Home!

First of all, I am happy to announce that the first Body Pride in the public sphere was a great success. Having not been there myself, I hear only from my naked whisperers, and all that is invading my ears are the reverberations of birthday-suit joy. For this, I would like to thoroughly thank the staff at Come As You Are for providing us an opportunity to reach more people and influence their perceptions in what small way we can.

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Secondly, after 8 amazing months at The Central, I’d Tap That is happy to announce that we have a new venue located at Club 120. I’d like to send a big shout-out to the Central for all of the memories and awesome times. You allowed us an amazing space to host incredible parties for the better part of a year, and I thank you for that. Each Crush Party I partook in ignited more love and appreciation for the sexy people of Toronto and I am thrilled to see how big our community has grown in the short span that we have throwing flirtacious shindigs.

All that said, we have an amazing evening planned for all of you wondrous beautiful beings and you should most definitely come enjoy a Sex On the Beach with us. January 26th, 10pm.

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10 Reasons To Come To I’D TAP THAT’s Event

1. I will be there. And I’m famous.

THATS ME…

2. Khadeja Wilkinson, Jesse Rae WestNess Fraser and Taken But Available will be there.

3. You don’t have to be single to meet awesome people.

4. No one will judge you – or… we put a great deal of energy into making the space a judgement-free one.

5. Drinks and dancing. Lots of dancing. Especially on my part.

6. Lucan, who’s the head honcho at The Central, is super cool, and their servers are all super sexy.

7. It’s summer. Everyone is wearing small amounts of clothing. And there are TWO patios that are all ours.

8. We have a live Twitter feed @_idtapthat, #CrushTO

9. We need to connect all of the incredibly awesome, talented, beautiful sexual beings in the city so we can build a community of support and friendship and sexy times.

10. Bewbs.

11. Khadeja Wilkinson is offering FREE KISSES.

12. The Condom Shack is being fucking amazing and giving us a $70 gift basket that we are raffling off!

I’d Tap That – A Venture Into Awesome

So. I’ve partnered up with some amazing girls (Jesse Rae West & TakenButAvailable) to start something new.

As much fun as I have here at my To Be A Slut homestead, there are some things that it is never going to turn into (whether this is because I want it to or just logical technicalities, who knows), but we’ve created a space that will turn into everything I ever wanted to do regarding sexy things

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Throughout my reign as sex queen, I have met (or, as they would say, ‘internet attacked’) some incredible women and men who are SOOO easy to talk about when it comes to sex. Who are genuinely interested in listening to me talk about my orgasms. Who don’t even blink an eye when I practically shout “I get SO wet when I drink wine” in the middle of Starbucks. Who will unabashedly stare a pictures of vulvas in the middle of a restaurant with me. Who will get naked with me. Who will dress up as slutty bumblebees and prance around my living room.

And I so badly want for all of you to join us in our uber happy world of sexuality that we have started a place to build a community.

We invite everyone (but our target audience is 19 – 35: Note, if you have a 55 year old lover, we more than welcome you to bring him/her to one of our events! We are not agist, we just recognize that different generations come with different histories), we encourage people to talk without worrying about offending anyone – as long as you are coming from a place of love, we won’t judge you if you aren’t politically correct all of the time, relax.

We will be bold, but not scary. We will be in your face, but not forceful. We will be proud, but not cocky (well.. maybe a little). Mostly though, we are just going to be full of love and fun.

I URGE you to come out and meet me and Jesse and our anonymous TakenButAvailable (she might reveal herself to you if you behave) at our first mixer.

These posters will be all over Toronto in the next few weeks. Hit us up with a tweet (@_idtapthat) if you see one.

Everyone that comes will be given a pin with a number on it. Throughout the night you will have the opportunity to write little crush notes and put them into boxes which will be checked every 30 minutes. We are going to have an epic live Twitter feed on one of the walls that will have each ‘Crush note’ posted. Think someone in the corner is cute?

#23, you have the most amazing smile I’ve ever seen.

#47, I kind of just want to sit on your face.

#6, I’m blonde in polkadots, find me for a smooch.

It will be kind of epic.

The event is for everyone, regardless of gender, race, relationship status, sexual preferences. Seriously. Come meet me. I want to meet you.