Having slept with a fair share of people… who am I kidding. More than my fair share. Like… a few heaping spoonfuls more than my fair share. I can concur that this hysterical and well-written article by Alana Massey on The Guardian is sadly relevant…
“It is more emotionally laborious for a lot of women to explain why they don’t want to have mediocre sex than to simply have the mediocre sex. It’s just that the sex does approximately as much for us as making a cupping motion over our elbow over and over again. It doesn’t hurt, but why would we?”
But I do have a useful piece of information for those that fear they are doomed to partake in mediocre boning for the rest of their lives: find your sex-positive community and/or get involved in feminist porn. These little blissed out pockets of people are filled with folx who know how to fuck.
Hells yes. What a superb plan. This slut is all about voting AND nudes.
Jessica Simps has created a win-win exchange: send a picture of yourself voting to votes4nudes (on Instagram) and in turn receive a picture of a naked so-and-so because bewbz. You can also follow their tumblr (which is less likely to be taken down by the man). I will be enthusiastically participating in this campaign as a slut who believes sexuality is a positive thing and if nudes are the incentive to get our political system into vaguely better shape, I am proud to be a Canadian.
Hi sexy internet friends! Incredibly excited to be speaking at George Brown’s The (Sex) Talk hosted by their LGBTQ Students Group!
Next Body Pride dates!!
Friday April 10th, 7-11pm, $50
Saturday April 11th, 7-11pm, $50 (*co-ed)
(Please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org to register for these workshops!)
Also, here are some really wonderful things that have come into my peripheral as of late. Some are beautiful, funny, haunting. Check them out.
This video on women who pole dance and why.
The Full Body Project of beautiful full bodies.
This adorable comic strip on aftercare.
This CBC Documentary on The Truth About Female Desire that I’m naked in a few times.
This article about Open Marriages and child-rearing.
This meet and greet for alternative, happy and socially aware beings that want to be part of our amazing porn world.
I hope everyone’s sexy journey is doing them well and pushing them to be more fulfilled human beings in whatever sense that means to you ❤
Airing February 12th at 9pm! Yours truly partakes in the discussion on what female desire can look like! Check out the trailer here.